Friday, February 21, 2014

Happy Birthday to You

This week was a good week.Thanks for all the birthday wishes. That meant a lot to me. Also a shoutout to my bro Josh. He's the best. This week we found some pretty positive news. We found a really positive family. I really hope that they will progress. We have been working with this one family. The mom and dad, who aren't married, are having some relationship problems and we have been trying to help them get through those. The dad wants to go the United States to try to earn more money. She doesn't want him to go. He is not respectful to her and she really wants him to change. We had a really good lesson with them. I felt the spirit strongly. I don't know if I have ever felt the spirit like that before. We talked about what things they could change to make their relationship better. She said, "I don't want him to go to the United States. I want him to stop hitting me, I want him to stop drinking. I want him to be respectful." She then started to cry. Before this I was feeling really sad. I saw that their relationship was broken. I compared it to that of my parents and the relationship of my family. I could see their potential and I wanted to help them so much. I asked the man if he was willing to change. He just kind of smirked and smiled and said, "Not right now." That, mixed with the tears of his wife, made me very angry. This was a different kind of anger though. I feel like it was the same kind of anger that Christ had when he kicked the vendors out of the temple. I was so upset that this guy was willfully hurting a daughter of God and the mother of his children and looked at it like some kind of joke and was not wanting to change. I spoke to him very clearly that he needed to repent and so that he knew that it was not a joke. We know that families are ordained of God and are the most important thing we have here. After the lesson while walking home I realized that I felt a little bit like Christ felt in that moment I mentioned and that he was angry because the people were desecrating something sacred. I learned a little more how important families are. That was a neat spiritual revelation that I received this week.
Thanks for everything.
Elder Rowberry

Tuesday, February 18, 2014

I think you're crazy.

From Feb. 14, 2014
This week we went to contact a reference that we got with this member. She took us to this house and we entered. The lady that we went to visit was sitting there with a veil on. This is an immediate indicator that she is every evangelical. The Evangelical church here is huge and they generally don't want anything to do with us. So I thought well this is going to be interesting. But we shared a scripture with here, because it was late we couldn't actually teach a full lesson. Then the Sister that was with us, Sister Gochez told us that she wanted a blessing. I'll tell you more about the Gochez family another day. Anyways we put our hands on her veiled head. (Not sure if blessing work through evangelical veils.) Before I could explain anything or say anything she immediatley starts praying in a very loud way. ¡Bendito Jesús! ¡Santo sea tu nombre! ¡Quita esta enfermidad de mi cuerpo! She started getting real into it and started yelling and shaking. Then her hands started going up and volume kept going up and up. Then final Sister Gochez stopped her. And had to, with force, pull her hands down. I then told her that she needs to be quiet and listen. She did and I gave her a little blessing. Apparently she has been visited by missionaries before. She invited us over for dinner and gave us sopa de gallina or hen soup. There was some weird stuff in that soup eggs that didn't have shells but were still shaped like eggs. I'm assuming they never actually left the hen until the hen was killed. They was some other funny textured mystery meat. The base of the soup was pure vegetable oil. It was actually pretty good though. Anyways that was the interesting story of this week
This week has been a good week. We found this guy one day a couple of weeks ago. We were walking in the street and I heard Hey Elders. I turned around and saw a guy and his wife. We went and started talking to him. He told us that he was a member but he went inactive around 20 years ago. Apparently his sisters are strong members but he has returned. So we asked what day we could pass by his house. He said, "Ahh, one day." His wife however was way more receptive. In fact she told us she was very interested in learning. The man told us, "I know that she wants to learn but I don't want her to want to learn." We just thought, "Oh well but we are definitely coming back." We have gone back a couple of times. Every time the man pretends to hide himself from us like he doesn't want to talk but now it is just a joke and they are becoming more positive and positive. The man is changing and they wife is learning. That really is the beautiful thing about the mission.
Thanks for everything.
-Elder Rowberry

I'm going through changes.

From Feb. 7, 2014

This week was changes week. Which, if you work in the office, means a lot of work. A lot of graphs and power points made, data and photos collected, and certificates printed. Lots of really exciting stuff for all of you readers at home. Here is a changes week day by day.
Monday: The Assistants and the Training Leaders have their meeting with President in the morning. Which means I need to take all of the numbers from the Zone Leaders. I then make reports and give them to them to analyse. I also had to have release packets ready for all the people that were going to leave. I also have a bunch of random other jobs to do.
Tuesday: All the news get here and we spend all day doing stuff with them. I had to also make sure I had all the photos of people who baptized families as well as certificates.
Wednesday: Changes meeting. I had to make sure powerpoints of success stories was ready and a powerpoint of family baptizers. We had to make sure everything was all good to go.
Thursday: Normally is just a normal day in the office. This week we had a meeting with all of the zone leaders so I had to make sure they all had reports of their areas and zones and I had to make sure all the confirmations were all correct and do a bunch of other boring things. 
Anyways it was a lot busier than it sounds. Every night we tried our best with the little time we had to proselyte to find new people and to teach. 
Thanks
-Elder Rowberry

Wednesday, February 12, 2014

I Come From the Land of the Ice and Snow

 I hear it's been pretty cold over there in the states. Here... it's not. It's still pretty hot. Thankfully Santa Ana isn't nearly as hot as Nahuizalco, where I was before. Also the air conditioned office is pretty nice.
    This week was a good week. We have really been trying to find news. I realized that finding new investigators is very important. Previously we have been focusing our success on a couple of investigators and when they don't progress or they don't want to keep commitments, or even make commitments for that matter, you are just left with nothing really.  We have been putting a much greater effort into finding the chosen. In our Zone Meeting on Thursday we talked about finding and we talked about what Elder Cook talked about. He quoted President Hinckley saying "If the missionaries had more faith, they would have more success." We have been trying to put our faith in the Lord more so that we can find news. We set a goal as Zona Paraíso to find 4 news a day per each companionship. I know that it is possible even though we have significantly less time to work in our area. I have been trying to increase my faith through studying about faith and trying to put what I learn into practice. One cool experience we had was when we were doing LPE trying to find news. We had been knocking on doors and getting rejected and rejected. Finally we talked to this lady in a medicine store and she had a client there. I asked them what they had heard about our church and if they had any questions. The lady told us that the Elders had visited her and her husband but due to some complication they lost contact. It was mainly her husband who was interested so she didn't want to talk to us. However, the client raised his hand and said, "If you guys have time I would really like it if you could visit me." We gave him an emphatic "Of Course!" So we walked with him to his house. We started talking and told us, "If you could I would love it if you invited me to Church." We told him that he was always invited and that every Sunday we have the meetings. He gave us his guarantee that he would come. It is nice when you find positive news. We definitely got blessed with him. I hope he continues to progress and eventually make it to baptism and the temple.
Also I forgot to mention the last two weeks that I got a new companion. His name is Elder Paravato. He's from California. My companion got changed away on emergency changes out of the office. I guess he just wasn't cutting it. 
Thanks for everything.
-Elder Rowberry